Do you gossip?

I like to listen to gossip, because you can know one thing from various point of views.

But what if one day you’re pillow talking with some of your mates and they’re discussing an individual negatively, and so in time that that individual is actually your close friend.

Will you be influenced by your mates, and start to act strangely towards that close friend of yours?

Or you’ll just take it as a form of past time, forgetting each and every words the next day over?

Hardly people can follow the latter, so do I sometimes, honestly.

But do we never ask ourselves, hey, no body is perfect! And never say that you’re a nobody lah because that is an antique lame joke already.

Everyone is born with attractive points and too, weaknesses. Sometimes when I was listening to a bunch of friends gossiping, I might not know at another place, I am actually some other’s topic! If you are one who gets influenced by gossip, then you should expect other people to deprive you when they heard of your ugly side.

Be able to forge one friendship is considered a blessing. Always have the thought that you make friend not because of what you hear from others, instead, what you are when you’re with him/her.

I can think of this, does not mean that I can act as one.

I wrote this post, just to remind myself to be a better person.

P.s: I always tease my friend Greg for writing Jiwang post. But hey, I’m now writing one. Sorry Greg I promise I will never tease you when you write Jiwang post ever again. =P